Tuesday, June 19, 2018

No Angel Visitant, No Opening Skies

i am amazed at how gullible we humans are.  we are conditioned to believe certain things by the cultures in which we grew up, by our families, by our educational backgrounds.  we accept things without questioning, ignoring reason and evidence.  we engage in all sorts of wishful thinking, placing our faith in that which gives us hope, even when logic tells us we shouldn't.  we look for explanations of what we don't understand, often relying on pseudo-science because it tells us what we wish were true.  a case in point is the anti-vaccination movement, which tells us that childhoods vaccines against what used to be common childhood diseases is the cause of autism, despite all the evidence disproving this theory.  the result is outbreaks of illnesses which could easily have been prevented.

we have a relative who has placed her trust in the "applied kinesiology" branch of quackery that is an offshoot of chiropractic.  practitioners of this fake science tell their patients that weakness in certain muscles is connected to ailments in corresponding vital organs, and they diagnose based on this belief.  our relative now is on a non-dairy, gluten-free diet because the "doctor" she trusts has convinced her that both she and her youngest son have numerous health problems because of their allergies to dairy products and breads that only a highly restrictive diet can cure.  she believes that her son's dyslexia results from his intolerance for these foods.  she has not consulted an allergist or any other traditional medical doctor, but is living her life based on what her "kinesiologist" has told her.  a few years ago, she placed her family on a diet in which they the only milk they consumed was unpasteurized because someone had convinced her that this was much healthier, despite many years of evidence that this is an unhealthy practice.

yesterday another relative recounted his experience with a door-to-door salesman who convinced him that changing to the cable tv plan that the salesman was peddling would save him sixty dollars a month.  no written materials were provided to him, and the salesman required that a personal check to begin the service had to be made out to the salesman rather than to the provider of this service.  in the back of my relative's mind, he knew that this was a scam, and it took the threat of calling the police to persuade the salesman to return my relative's check, once my relative came to his senses.  this same relative invested several hundred dollars in a seat cushion containing magnets that was supposed to cure all sorts of health problems.  he knew that this was a doubtful claim, and even when the salesman offering this product tried to convince my relative that an additional investment of a few more hundred dollars for more magnets for his new cushion would result in even better results, my relative didn't balk at buying the cushion, though he did decline the extra magnets.  the cushion is now packed away because the promised benefits didn't occur.

we all fall for such frauds from time to time, because we want easy solutions to difficult problems.  we want to believe that a change in diet will cure whatever ails us, even when we are eating a healthy diet to begin with.  we want to believe that the evils in the world are caused by some supernatural being called the devil.  we want to believe that praying a magical prayer or investing in magnetized seat cushions will cure diseases.  we want to believe that we can get something for next to nothing, all the while knowing that if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't true.

may we stop and weigh the evidence before we accept as truth something that is unproven.  if we believe in a God, may we not believe in one that doesn't allow us to question and search for evidence.  may we counter our gullibility with logic, taking time to think before we act.  may we realize that just because someone is "nice" doesn't mean that someone is honest.  shalom.

Tuesday, June 12, 2018

Pardon, Peace, and Joy Are Found

this past sunday, the minister of the church we attend preached on a passage from luke in which jesus and his disciples are accused of breaking the sabbath.  first, as the disciples and jesus walk through a field of grain, the disciples pick and eat some of the grain, and the pharisees question jesus about his allowing this to happen.  later, jesus heals a man with a deformed hand in the synagogue on the sabbath, deliberately challenging the religious rules about what is allowed on the sabbath.

in his explanation of the strictures regarding sabbath-keeping among the jews of jesus' time, practices maintained by some observant jews to this day, the minister quoted numbers 15: 32-36.  this passage describes an incident as the israelites were making their way to the promised land when a man was found gathering wood on the sabbath, brought before moses, and condemned to death, a sentence carried out by the community taking the man outside the camp and stoning him, " just as the Lord had commanded moses."  no further explanation of this passage was offered, and i was disturbed that the idea that God would require such a punishment for a rather insignificant violation of the religious laws, one that was no more egregious than the actions of jesus' disciples.

the content of the rest of the sermon showed a great understanding of the human spirit, reminding us that the thrust of jesus' teachings and life pointed us to a God of mercy, love, and forgiveness, in contrast to the ritualistic and rule-bound god of the religious establishment of the time.  yet, i can't understand why the stark contrast between jesus' teachings and the god of the ancient israelites was not addressed.  it is this refusal to admit in most christian churches that there are contradictions and inaccuracies in the bible that drives people from the christian faith.  we are dishonest as we insist that the bible must be accepted in toto, glossing over passages like the one in numbers and failing to address these different understandings of God head-on.  we leave our services questioning whether or not we ought to claim to be christians if we can't accept this vision of a god of vengeance, who condones putting people to death for petty infractions of religious laws.

may we be honest in admitting many passages in the bible are contradictory, that in order for one passage to be true another must be false.  may we examine what we read and hear and not be afraid to reject that which is patently wrong.  may we worship a God of love, embracing "that of God" that is love in our hearts.  shalom.

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Be It Ever So Humble

we are finally back from our trip.  we saw so many beautiful things--churches, government buildings, palaces, museums filled with art, mountains, rivers, fjords, far too many to list.  we returned exhausted and happy to be in our own home among things that are familiar to us.  as always when we travel, we were amazed at the kindness of strangers: the man who showed us the best butter in the grocery store, the woman who gave us directions, the family that made sure we got off at the right stop on the s-tog, the young lady who insisted that i take her deck chair on the boat.  i hope that we showed others the same kindness that they extended to us and that the danes, norwegians, russians, finns, germans, swedes, and estonians that we encountered saw the basic goodness of americans in our behavior towards them.  that is, i suppose, the main goal of travel, to remind ourselves that we are all basically the same, all human beings with intrinsic dignity and good will for one another.  sure, we found some people that were thoughtless, mainly other travelers who were more interested in being at the head of the line, first off the boat or train, willing to do whatever it took to insure their own convenience, but those were the minority.  their rudeness and selfishness were easily dismissed when compared to the vast majority of kind-hearted, considerate people we met.

now that we are back home we face familiar problems--getting the yard back in shape, washing the clothes, charging the car battery that has run down, restocking the larder, catching up on the news from family and friends.  it's good to deal with the mundane again, just as it was good to escape it for a few weeks.  the national news is pretty much the same--hearing lies from a leader who should embody the best ideals of our country, listening to hateful rhetoric directed at those who don't deserve it, blaming the victims for their own victimization, looking for scapegoats for the ills that confront us.  many of our country's leaders embody and embolden hatreds that were long buried in our national psyche, and americans of good will wonder how to end these old prejudices and bring our government back to serving, rather than harming, the people who live here.

we must discern the best way forward.  the hatreds given legitimacy by the last election are part of our culture that have been suppressed rather than dealt with.  now they are exposed, and we see that what we thought had ceased to exist was only hidden.  how do we teach people to love rather than hate?  is confrontation the best way?  is treating others as we wish to be treated the solution?  perhaps, it is a combination of the two.  we can't let vicious words and actions go unchallenged, but we can't end hate by more hate.  we can't call people "deplorables," but we can condemn deplorable actions and rhetoric.  we have to find the underlying humanity of those who seem to be filled with hate, and we must try to understand the root causes of the hate that seems to have found a home in their hearts.  the great stain of slavery has long been a curse that disfigures our national fabric, and we must recognize it and work to cleanse that fabric so we can enjoy the many beautiful hues that are woven into it.  our country is like a coat of many colors, all lovely when we can see their beauty.  we are a song in many tongues that can only be sung if we embrace its diversity and treasure its great richness.

may we see the intrinsic greatness of our experiment in the rule of law that embodies the principle that all "are created equal."  may we encourage all our people, no matter the color of their skin or the language they speak, to join together in mutual kindness and respect.  may our daily lives exemplify those ideals which have always made our country great, rather than spreading hate in the name of "making it great again."  shalom.

Tuesday, May 29, 2018

A Buddhist Blessing

may we be filled with loving-kindness and compassion.
may we be well.
may we be peaceful and at ease.
may we be happy.

Tuesday, May 22, 2018

Along the Eightfold Path

may i have the complete view, intention, speech, action, and livelihood.  may i make the complete effort.  may i have the complete mindfulness and concentration.

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

A Prayer on Love

may i be constant.  may i be kind.  may i not be envious, boastful, arrogant, or rude.  may i not insist on my own way.  may i not be irritable or resentful, keeping a count of wrongs.  may i rejoice when right is done, and may i be forgiving when wrong is done.  may i endure in love, may i trust in love, may i hope in love, may i persist in love, remembering that love is unending.

Tuesday, May 8, 2018

A Prayer Upon Awakening

today i am fortunate to have awakened.  i am alive, i have a precious human life.  may i not waste it.  may i expend all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others, to seek enlightenment for the benefit of all beings.  may i think kindly of others.  may i not become angry or think badly of others.  may i develop loving-kindness, compassion, joyful appreciation, and even-minded calm.