last week i wrote about a situation in our church that was causing my wife and me a great deal of anxiety. that situation is moving toward a resolution, not the one we had hoped for, but a resolution nevertheless. the aggrieved staff member is actively seeking employment elsewhere and, in the meantime, is making the best of a difficult working environment. he hopes to stay on until he can complete some projects that will benefit the children and youth with whom he has been working, but it may be that a new job will present itself before he can do that. i fear that his departure will make an already bad state of affairs in our church worse, but when he leaves he and we will know that we have done all we could to minimize the damage that has been done by other parties.
our moving plans continue, and their pace is picking up. our children were home this weekend to help us load a rental truck with all the boxes we have packed so that we can move them to our new hometown where we will store them in a rental space until we can find a new home. while we're there, we hope to make an offer on a house so that we can complete our move by the end of next month when the buyers of our current home will take possession. we are anxious about not having a home to move into and hope that anxiety will be ended by the time we return from our trip to deliver our packed boxes. if that is the case, we can move forward with confidence in packing up the last remaining odds and ends in our present home, a house that has been our refuge for the past thirty years.
we realized as our son and daughter worked with us to move what seemed to be hundreds of boxes, though the number was certainly not as large as it felt to us from our aching muscles at the end of the day, how fortunate we are to have two wonderful children. as my wife and i talked last night just before falling asleep, we marveled at their willingness to work so intensely without complaint and at their comments that this was the least they could do for us after all we had done for them. they worked together so well, treating each other with great kindness, and we are so delighted that, though they are separated in age by ten years, they have such great affection for one another. to have such children is a great blessing to us in our advancing years.
amidst all the changes that are coming in our lives, the great constant is the abiding love that we feel for one another and the close family ties that bind us, our children, and their spouses together. as we look back on our lives and all the difficulties we've faced, it is gratifying that kindness and compassion for one another overrides any differences and obstacles, that we are united in love.
may each of us find such connections to other human beings. may we recognize the power of love to heal the wounds and suffering of life. may the love we feel for those close to us expand to include all that we come in contact with, and may we see each sentient being as our kin. shalom.